Transformative Fatherhood
New fatherhood is disorienting. You’re not a failure, you’re just without a map and a guide. We’re here to provide you both.
What are other fathers saying?
“If you are serious about being a father and willing to put in the work, this is your shot! Jonnathan is honest about fatherhood. He is direct in love to help you be the best you possibly can be. If you want to thrive and not just survive, dive into this cohort!”
“Fatherhood isn’t a given. As in, many men will become fathers, but fewer will step into the God given calling that is fatherhood. We need more men to step into this calling. And that requires training. Jonnathan and Transformative Fatherhood are doing that work: training fathers to become more than just a parent but a teacher, friend, and image of a greater, better Father above. The framework of Transformative Fatherhood puts into words the feelings and motivations almost every father shares in. Through a focus on healing from the past, growing in the present, and building towards the future, the Transformative Fatherhood experience gives you the tools you need to be more than just another dad. You will indeed become a transformative father.”
“Jonnathan is a very good listener. His ability to be attentive, patient, compassionate and caring has allowed me to reflect on my situation and be guided by his powerful use of thoughtful and appropriate questions. I enjoy working with him because I know that he will lead me to an awareness that creates peace and positive change. I highly recommend Jonnathan as a coach and I’m blessed to be able to work with him!”
Nobody warned you that becoming a father would shake everything you thought you knew about yourself.
You started with the best intentions. You wanted to show up, really show up, for your wife/partner and your child. But somewhere between the sleepless nights, the shifting identity, and the weight of a role nobody actually prepared you for, something changed.
You started pulling back. Not because you stopped caring, but because you didn’t know how to move forward.
That quiet withdrawal has a cost. Not just for you, but for your wife/partner, your child, and the generation that comes after them.
The good news: you’re here. And that changes everything.
Research confirms what most fathers already sense, that fatherhood matters.
According to the National Fatherhood Initiative, “Father involvement benefits the well-being of children, fathers, and mothers.” (Father Facts, 9th ed.)
The benefits of fatherhood for you and your family are remarkable.
The question isn’t whether your fatherhood matters. It’s whether you’ll get the tools to do it well.
That’s exactly what the Transformative Fatherhood Cohort was built for.
This is for you if you’re feeling…
Overwhelmed
You’re stressed as you navigate and balance various tasks, commitments, and expectations.
Unsure
You don’t know how your father impacted you or if he can help you now.
Lonely
You don’t feel seen or supported by others.
Unequipped
You don’t feel you have what it takes.
Concerned
You’re worried about the future.
Determined
You’re still resolved to make a difference.
This is for you if…
What the program includes
The Transformative Fatherhood Cohort is built on a key framework and set of virtues to be explored, embraced, and embodied by fathers over time.
The HEAL + GROW + BUILD framework gives you a map for where you are and a compass for where you’re going. Every session, every attribute, and every action step in this cohort is built around it.
Every father brings a history into his fatherhood. The model he inherited. The wounds he carries. The patterns he swore he’d never repeat.
Healing isn’t a weakness. It’s the foundation everything else is built on. An unexamined past runs unconsciously into the future, into your parenting, your marriage, and your children.
Pursuing relational rest and harmony by managing and resolving conflict in a way that produces growth for everyone involved. Not the absence of conflict, but the redemptive navigation of it.
Responding and adapting to change and challenge, moving forward despite the obstacles. Not pretending things aren’t hard. Moving forward anyway.
This is the active season. The one you’re in right now. Identity confusion. Isolation. Relationship strain. The daily challenge of showing up when you’re running on empty.
Growing in your present means building clarity about who you’re becoming, in community with other fathers who get it.
Pursuing deep delight and gladness in what really matters in life. Not manufactured happiness. The settled, rooted delight that comes from being fully present to what actually matters.
Expressing and embodying love in tangible, costly ways to those under your care. Love is not a feeling. It’s a daily decision.
Evaluating, discerning, and applying what is best to experience the good life together. Not knowing everything, but knowing what matters and acting on it.
A healed and growing father is ready to build something that outlasts him. His family’s values. His children’s emotional, spiritual, and social inheritance. A legacy that gets better with each generation rather than repeating the same wounds.
Creating and adding beauty, order, and value to strengthen relationships and restore what’s broken. Your family needs you to build something, not just provide.
Managing and maximizing your time, treasure, and talents for greater impact, now and beyond. Not just financial stewardship. The stewardship of your presence, your energy, your attention.
A committed community
A group of like-minded fathers eager to learn and grow together.
A rule of life
A comprehensive yet accessible “fatherhood rule of life” to build on.
A real deliverable
Complete a tangible fatherhood creative project to take home.
Welcome & stories
Meet the group and share where your fatherhood is starting from.
New father orientation
Get oriented to the road ahead and what matters most.
Heal from your past
Face what shaped you so it doesn’t shape your parenting.
Grow in your present
Build habits and clarity for the father you are today.
Build for your future
Set a vision and a plan for the family you’re building.
Personal project & close
Complete your fatherhood project and celebrate the journey.
Your Guide
Jonnathan Menendez
I have spent 15 years as a minister walking alongside people through the hardest transitions of their lives: broken relationships, identity crises, grief, and family conflict.
I thought I was prepared for anything until I became a father. Everything I knew about transformation got deeply, uncomfortably personal.
As a biological and step-father, I’ve walked two very different roads into fatherhood, and both have been challenging, leaving me disoriented at times. I didn’t know who I was supposed to be. No clear model. No manual. No map.
That gap is what Transformative Fatherhood LLC was built to close.
Claim your spot. The next cohort starts October 1
1 full year of online community access (free)
Future cohort members pay $11.99/month or $99/year. As a founding member your first full year is completely free. The brotherhood doesn’t end when the 6 weeks do, it’s just getting started. Value: $145
3 free 1-on-1 coaching sessions with Jonnathan
Three private 60-minute coaching sessions, scheduled during or after the cohort, to go as deep as your specific situation requires. These are not add-ons. They are a direct line to the transformation the cohort begins. Value: $900+
- One-time payment$995 · best value
- Two payments of$550
- Three payments of$425
Frequently Asked Questions
Do I have to be Christian or religious to join?+
My child is older than 18 months. Is this cohort still for me?+
I have a demanding schedule. What if I can’t make every session?+
What does a typical session look like?+
What is the refund policy?+
What happens when the 6 weeks are over?+
I want to do this but I’m not sure I’m ready. How do I know if this is the right time?+
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